I read the daily newspaper from cover to cover and
watch three TV news programmes every evening. I am trying to wean myself of
this destructive habit because the news these days is so stressful and depressing.
I figure that if I do not watch the nightly news then no news will be good news,
because, let’s face it, if something terrible happened anywhere in the world
that day, the local TV channels will show it to you and in gory detail.
Writing in The Australian newspaper
recently, well known columnist, writer and raconteur, Phillip Adams, wrote, “It’s
been hard to laugh, lately. Not with Gaza, MH17,
Syria, ISIS, AIDS, Ebola, child molestation, genital mutilation, Libya, the
Nigerian abductions, Manus and Christmas Islands and even Rolf Bloody Harris. Laughter
languishes. It cannot provide its best medicine.”
And now, sadly, we can add the death of Robin Williams.
The
untimely death of Robin Williams brought sadness to millions. When Buddy Holly
was killed Don McLean wrote that it was “The day the music died.” For many, William’s
death marks the day that the laughter died.
In our
sick and sorry world some would argue that Laughter was killed off some time
ago.
Phillip Adams said the
whole world is holding its breath, unable to laugh at the untold miseries
around us. But, we must not let the laughter die. Laughter is a sign of Hope
and we all need Hope. Like a lot of people suffering mental illness, Robin
Williams ran out of Hope. Death was the result.
It was Charlie Chaplin who
said, “In the end, everything is a gag.” Initially, some things are so very,
very sad that we all grieve. However, time passes and before long someone makes
a joke about even the most horrific events. And we all laugh.
On July 25, 2000,
Concorde crashed into an hotel shortly after taking off from Charles De Gaulle
Airport, killing 109 passengers and crew and four people in the hotel. The
world was shocked. A week later I heard a comedian say that the Concorde’s Black
Box had revealed the Pilot’s last words were, “There’s a nice hotel. Let’s
crash there.” Quite a lot of people laughed. A week was long enough for them to
turn a shocking tragedy into a gag.
And that is why we have
jokes about such events as the holocaust, Hiroshima and the deaths of people
such as John Lennon, John F. Kennedy and even the crucifixion of Jesus Christ.
Why, the British comedy team, Monty Python’s Flying Circus, even made a movie culminating
in that momentous event on Calvary. It concludes with their main character
hanging from a cross and singing, “Always look on the bright side.” People thought it was so hilarious.The film
won several awards.
Ah, yes, in the end
everything is just a gag. However, the fact is that Laughter really is the best
medicine for us all. There is a great deal of medical research which
demonstrates that Laughter:
·
*Relaxes the whole body and leave our muscles relaxed for up to 45
minutes.
· *Boosts the immune system, decreases stress hormones and
increases immune cells and infection fighting antibodies, thus increasing resistance
to disease.
· *Releases endorphins, the body’s natural feel good chemicals that
promote a sense of wellbeing and even brings temporary pain relief.
· *Protects the heart by improving blood vessel function and
increasing blood flow, which is great news for your heart and circulation.
Laughter has social as well as physical
benefits. It strengthens relationships and attracts us to others. It enhances
teamwork and defuses conflict. Let’s face it, we would all rather work with
someone who laughs a lot rather than a grumpy puss. Though the dark clouds may
gather, there is always a silver lining.
Basically, laughter is our defence
mechanism. Everyone laughs when a man slips on a banana skin. Why? We don’t
want the man to injure himself but we laugh, basically, because we are glad it
happened to him and not to us.
It is the same with the fellow who said,
“Last night my wife and I watched three DVDs back to back. Fortunately I was
the one facing the telly.” A completely
reasonable statement followed by one that destroys our original perception of
what was said. And we laugh because it didn’t happen to us.
My dad was a man who enjoyed a joke and
made other people happy to be around him. On the day he came home from hospital
after some chest x-rays had caused some concern, I asked how he had got on. “Well,
it looks like the Spanish dancer has got me at last.” was his opening comment. Spanish
dancer was his rhyming slang for cancer. He used humour to lighten the mood on what
was a very sombre day for our family.
When I was in grade three, my teacher,
the wonderful Mrs Brown, used to put aphorisms on the board for us to copy
during our handwriting lessons. On one occasion I was puzzled when she had us
transcribe “A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.” I
was eight years old and all I knew was that relish was something that you
spread on bread and butter. I could not see the connection between wise men and
sandwich spread.
That day, Mrs Brown taught me two very
important lessons. Firstly, English words can have more than one meaning and
secondly, it is good for your health to enjoy a joke or a laugh and not take
things to seriously. I’d like to think I have carried both of those lessons
through life.
Milton Berle the first great TV comedian
said, “Laughter is an instant vacation.”
Bill Cosby, another funny and
philosophical man on TV said, “Through humour, you can soften the worst blows
that life delivers. Once you find laughter, no matter how painful your
situation might be, you can survive it.”
Of course, like all good humour, it is
in the timing. Like a lot of people, I have
been to funerals where people were sad and mournful. Yet a few hours later, at
the wake, we are all laughing and recalling, with great affection, the funny
moments we shared with our departed friend.
There is a time and place for
everything. Charlie Chaplin was right.
In time, everything does become a gag. Let us hope, in these days of world wide
instant and depressing news, that we can always look on the bright side of life.
Laughter is the best medicine. We should indulge in it frequently, every day.
And, in case you haven’t enjoyed your laugh today, here’s an old joke from an old teacher with a love of language.
“The thief stole a load of full stops.
He’s looking at a very lengthy sentence.”
Go on, laugh. It will do you the world of good and make the world a better place.
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